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I'M READY

My love, you do actually get to have it all.

You get to say yes to your whole self - including the desires you always swept aside as too much, too confusing, too complicated.

You get to be complicated.

You see, there are more of us like you than you realise. Even in those ways where you've wondered… is this just me?

Why reclaiming your DARK EROS is the obvious next step for a courageous cycle-breaker like you?

Because when you're disconnected from your erotic truth, you're disconnected from your power. It shows up in your relationships, your boundaries, the chronic discomfort you ignore, and the way you bargain with yourself. It's the difference between giving yourself the bare minimum, and full-bodied orgasmic aliveness. 

YES, I'M READY

My love, you do actually get to have it all.

You get to say yes to your whole self - including the desires you always swept aside as too much, too confusing, too complicated.

You get to be complicated. 

Why reclaim DARK EROS?

Because when you're disconnected from your erotic truth, you're disconnected from your power. 

It shows up in your relationships, your boundaries, the chronic discomfort you ignore, and the way you bargain with yourself.

It's the difference between giving yourself the bare minimum, and full-bodied orgasmic aliveness. 

YES, I'M READY

 To step into your most shamelessly abundant life you don't need more talk therapy, or to go to more sexuality workshops led by sleazy men. What's slowing you down is the way you're distancing yourself from the dark, messy desires that don't fit the beautiful life you're building. 

It's why you freeze when your lover asks what turns you on - because how could a decent person like them ever understand? It's the reason you've read the books, done the breathwork, and still find yourself zoning out during sex you wanted.

For a free spirit like you, shoving your guilty fantasies out of sight (until they bubble back up at unwanted moments) isn't a long-term game.

You're a grown adult who isn't afraid of the dark.

It's time to reclaim your dark eros through embodied Erotic Mindfulness - so that you can make fantasy your playground and feel the YES light up your whole body.
I WANT THIS

You don't need more talk therapy. You don't need more sexuality workshops led by sleazy men.

What's slowing you down is the way you're distancing yourself from the dark, messy desires that don't fit the beautiful life you're building. 

It's why you freeze when your lover asks what turns you on. It's why you've read the books, done the breathwork, and still zone out during sex you wanted.

For a free spirit like you, shoving your guilty fantasies out of sight isn't a long-term game.

You're a grown adult who isn't afraid of the dark.

It's time to reclaim your dark eros through Erotic Mindfulness - so you can make fantasy your playground and feel the YES light up your whole body.
I WANT THIS

If you'd told me 3 years ago what my life would be like in 2026, I wouldn't have believed you.

What do you mean, I get not one but TWO gorgeous long-term kinky relationships with hot queer switches?

What do you mean I heal my attachment wounds and my sex and love addiction, train in somatic trauma therapy, and see my clients significantly reduce their CPTSD symptoms in a handful of sessions?

You mean I go from chronically ill to winning gold medals in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu- just from reclaiming the aggression I'd exiled to my dark fantasies? Wait, what?

I didn't get here by pushing myself harder. I got here by saying yes to my whole self - including the Dark Eros I'd been told to keep hidden.

I can't wait to see what embodied erotic mindfulness will do for you...

LET'S GO

If you'd told me 3 years ago what my life would be like in 2026, I wouldn't have believed you...

TWO gorgeous long-term kinky relationships with hot queer switches.

Healing my attachment wounds and my sex and love addiction - and seeing my somatic therapy client significantly reduce CPTSD symptoms in a handful of sessions.

Recovering from chronic fatigue and winning gold medals in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu- just from reclaiming the aggression I'd exiled to my dark fantasies.

Wait, what?

I didn't get here by pushing myself harder. I got here by saying yes to my whole self.

What will embodied erotic mindfulness do for you?

LET'S GO

"I've worked with a lot of therapists and Blake has an exceptional therapeutic capacity. In our sessions I've felt so solidly yet effortlessly held by their lively and interested energy.  And their attunement and intuition means that each session is a really significant step forward for me. I can't recommend them highly enough."

~ Dr Arianne Bloodwood

This 8-day erotic reclamation is for YOU if any of these things feel true...

  • You can feel Dark Eros calling you, and it feels exciting, thrilling, and a little bit dangerous.
  • You’re a powerhouse with fantasies of surrender, and you are so done putting off your own erotic fulfillment. 
  • You’ve lived through unbelievable plot twists, and you’re ready to take ownership of how your story has shaped your eroticism.
  • You tend to intellectualise - and you want to break through dissociation and feel your body tingling with aliveness.
  • You’ve been so busy with other things you aren’t even sure what your true desires are - and you're ready to find out.
  • You yearn to be in a circle of sacred sluts where you can let go and just play.
YES - I'M IN

This is NOT for you if…

✗ You don't believe you deserve pleasure, and aren't willing to invest in yourself.

✗ You're happy with the status quo, and aren't ready to step into a new era of erotic abundance.

✗ You know your eroticism is tangled up with trauma, but you've not started your healing journey. This space is deeply trauma-informed and can hold a lot, but it's not the right place to unpack raw, unprocessed pain.

✗ You're a cishet man who needs to be the center of attention. This space centers people with lived experience of misogyny and femmephobia.

Most people won't tell you this, but…

✦ You can connect to your Dark Eros in a way that feels deeply aligned.

✦ You can play inside your wickedly creative imagination without being interrupted by your inner critic.

✦ You can lean in to the shocking intensity that makes you most aroused  while feeling safe and fully present.

✦ Behind that secret door inside you are the hidden gifts of your sexual shadow, waiting to be unlocked.

✦ When you reconnect to your body from a place of grounded safety, you'll feel more alive than ever before.

So that touch feels better.
So that sex feels better.
So that there's more joy and vitality in your whole system every day.

OPEN THE DOOR

"Working with Blake was such a gift. From the very beginning, they brought a calm, grounding presence with a rare ability to put everyone at ease. They are caring, sensitive and trauma-informed. They listen with real attention and empathy, while gently guiding us toward areas for growth."

- Siobhàn Knox

You're not going to be thrown out of Eden for biting the apple.

When Eve tasted that forbidden fruit, what coursed through her  was the bliss of embracing her darkness as well as her light.

You're going to meet parts of your beautiful, complex self you've not been looking at. The parts of yourself that have nowhere else to go - so they show up in your sexual shadow.

I know you've lived through and risen above things you shouldn't have had to. And that sometimes the painful, dark sh*t from the world we're born into shows up in our eroticism in ways we don't choose - and can't make sense of.

But here's what I want you to know:

You don't have to repress any of your dark desires in order to step into your most self-expressed, authentic, sacred, sexual self.

You need an Erotic Mindfulness initiation guided by a somatic therapist who happens to have two decades experience as a kinky sex worker.

TAKE A BITE

Hey love, I’m Blake - your erotic underworld guide.

I've been working with people's taboo turn-ons for 20 years - making award-winning feminist BDSM films, supporting thousands of clients to actualise their deepest darkest fantasies in a safe and consensual way (and literally writing a book on it). 

Through it all I thought I knew my own sexual shadow.  But it wasn't until healing my own complex trauma that I unlocked the full potential of my erotic mind.

I didn't expect my conscious kink journey to lead me through Jungian shadow work, Internal Family Systems, and somatic trauma therapy - or that I'd end up learning how to alchemise shame into pleasure, and pain into healing and community.

When I befriended and integrated my disowned parts through creative Erotic Mindfulness play, I recovered from burnout, unwound years of chronic tension, and stepped into an unrecognisable give-no-f*cks era of my life that continues to blow my mind every day.

For 8 days I'm sharing the foundational practices that opened my system to full-bodied aliveness.

LET'S GO

Hey love, I’m Blake Becoming.

I've worked with taboo turn-ons for 20 years - making award-winning feminist BDSM films, supporting thousands of clients to safely explore their darkest fantasies (and literally writing a book on it). 

I didn't expect my conscious kink journey to lead me through Jungian shadow work, Internal Family Systems, and somatic trauma therapy - or that I'd end up recovered from chronic illness, unwound years of tension, and stepping into an unrecognisable give-no-f*cks era of my life that continues to blow my mind every day.

For 8 days I'm sharing the foundational practices that opened my system to full-bodied aliveness.

LET'S GO

"I really enjoyed the sessions and course content. So deep!! SO much to think about. You crafted the content so wonderfully and carefully I felt this wow feeling as so much opened up for me."

- RW

"I was feeling desperate about my long-term relationship, but after only two sessions I had a big breakthrough and some good conversations with my partner - which had felt impossible before. Now there's less defensiveness, and less conflict. You helped me articulate things about my desires which I've never said out loud before, and understand them in a new way. Things have changed a lot for me through working with you."

- Spike

"Working with Blake was such a gift. They bring a calm, grounding presence with a rare ability to put everyone at ease. They are empathic, caring and trauma-informed, while gently guiding us towards growth."

- Siobhàn Knox

"You helped me articulate things about my desires which I've never said out loud before, and understand them in a new way. Things have changed a lot for me through working with you."

- Spike

"So deep!! SO much to think about. You crafted the content so wonderfully and carefully I felt this wow feeling as so much opened up for me."

- RW

YOUR DARK EROS INITIATION

In just 8 days you'll:

✦ Sink deeply into your body - so you feel more grounded, present, and alive to sensation

✦ Release inherited shame and the pressure to conform.

✦ Connect with the creative intelligence of your erotic imagination

✦ Tune into your sacred yes and sacred no and honour your own consent.

✦ Enter your erotic mind with curiosity, consciousness and compassion - so that you can explore your most taboo turn-ons without getting overwhelmed or zoning out

✦ Channel erotic life energy so that your whole being lights up with aliveness.

HOLY DARKSIDE I'M IN!

🌑 CLASS 1: DARK
Friday 8 May | 1pm BST

Enter your erotic shadow from a place of embodied safety. Break the spell of 'normal' and create your own Shameless Mantra.

🔥 CLASS 2: EROS
Tuesday 12 May | 1pm BST 

Start trusting your gut and open the door in your mind you've been avoiding. Embrace Bad B*tch Mode. 

🌸 CLASS 3: RECLAIMED
Friday 15 May | 1pm BST

Make fantasy your playground, start calling the shots in your erotic mind, and get clear on your most secret desires.

Replays available - but the real magic happens live.

What's included:

✔️ 8 days of shame-releasing, Bad-B*tch-Mode-engaging, desire-embracing erotic alchemy

✔️ 3 LIVE CLASSES & SURPRISE BONUS (replays available)

✔️ Private Signal group of fierce femmes & thems who get it

✔️ Audio transmissions, somatic practices, and direct support between calls

 ✔️ PLUS 2 INSTANT ACCESS BONUSES: 

 🎁 Erotic Mindfulness Meditation - 30-minute  guided practice to help you connect your erotic mind to your body's safety

 🎁Autogenic Nervous System Reset - 10-minute self-hypnosis relaxation audio to help you regulate anywhere, anytime (this alone is worth the whole entrance fee!)

ALL THIS FOR ONLY $22??

 

 

 

 

 

 

Questions Answered

LET'S DO THIS

First class THIS FRIDAY

8 May 2026 - 1pm BST

When you reclaim Dark Eros, you do get to have it all.

You get to be powerful and turned on by surrender.

You get to look after others and get a thrill from being in charge.

You get to play with danger while feeling the safest you've ever felt in your life.

You get to be an ambitious, outrageous, wildly abandoned, joyfully sacred slut
- without losing your integrity, your self-command, or your peace of mind.

It's okay if right now everything feels kind of complicated, intense, emotional or busy.

I've made this erotic underworld initiation as easy and nourishing as finally going to that new yoga class + drinking a fresh smoothie in the tub... only this is gonna feel waaaaay better.

CAUTION: side effects may include uncontrollable squirt-laugh-gasms (I can't wait to tell you THIS story!)

I'M READY TO HAVE IT ALL

First class THIS FRIDAY

8 May 2026 - 1pm BST

When you reclaim Dark Eros, you do get to have it all.

Powerful and turned on by surrender.

Looking after others and getting a thrill from being in charge.

Playing with danger while feeling the safest you've ever felt in your life.

You get to be an ambitious, outrageous, wildly abandoned, joyfully sacred slut
- without losing your integrity, your self-command, or your peace of mind.

 CAUTION: side effects may include uncontrollable squirt-laugh-gasms (I can't wait to tell you THIS story!)

I WANT IT ALL

Blake Becoming honours your yes as an act of integrity, and a commitment to yourself. For this reason, change-of-mind refunds are not offered once payment has been received.

© Blake Becoming 2026