Erotic Pendulation Protocol

WITH BLAKE BECOMING

A 30 minute audio experience to guide you safely through the darkest corners of your erotic mind.

Erotic Pendulation Protocol

WITH BLAKE BECOMING

A 30 minute audio experience to guide you safely through the darkest corners of your erotic mind.

Pendulation is the best-kept secret of trauma therapists & somatic practitioners.

Why experience my Erotic Pendulation Method?

Because we can't tune into self-consent around our dark fantasies - or accelerate our healing through Erotic Parts Play™ - unless we start here first.

Learning to shift our attention between our erotic mind and our felt sense is the foundation of everything I teach.

SHOW ME HOW

Pendulation is the best-kept secret of trauma therapists & somatic practitioners.

Why experience my Erotic Pendulation Method?

Because we can't tune into self-consent around our dark fantasies - or accelerate our healing through Erotic Parts Play™ - unless we start here first.

Learning to shift our attention between our erotic mind and our felt sense is the foundation of everything I teach.

SHOW ME HOW

Sign up for the free instant access guided Erotic Pendulation audio below: 

 

Sign up for the free instant access guided Erotic Pendulation audio below:

 

You've had these fantasies a long time...

and they've only gotten more detailed.

But you've never told anyone.

Blowing cigarette smoke in your lover's face.

"Mummy" or "Daddy" roles that feel uncomfortably charged.

Being a mindless bimbo used for your partner's pleasure.

Your inner pain slut getting as much as they can take and more - or your inner sadist going all out.

Or maybe the charge lives in emotional masochism, where your deepest fears of rejection or violation make you wildly turned on.

Whatever you fantasise about, there's nothing wrong with you. And there's a way to play in your dark side and come back feeling good about yourself.

I WANT THIS

You've had these fantasies a long time...

and they've only gotten more detailed.

But you've never told anyone.

Blowing cigarette smoke in your lover's face.

"Mummy" or "Daddy" roles that feel uncomfortably charged.

Being a mindless bimbo used for your partner's pleasure.

Your inner pain slut getting as much as they can take and more - or your inner sadist going all out.

Or maybe the charge lives in emotional masochism, where your deepest fears of rejection or violation make you wildly turned on.

Whatever you fantasise about, there's nothing wrong with you.

And there's a way to play in your dark side and come back feeling good about yourself.

I WANT THIS

I've spent 20 years turning my deepest, darkest fantasies into erotic film.

Little did I know that two decades directing feminist smut and doing BDSM sex work would lead me to discover a unique method for playing safely in the dark.

 nd working as ...and helped thousands of clients safely express their taboo turn-ons - because the desires we feel most conflicted about hold the most creative intelligence and untapped power.

Dominating a client and looking after queer performers on set have something in common: tuning into two realities at once. One is the fantasy we're creating. The other is tracking their body language and nervous systems.

Most people don't know that we can use the same Erotic Pendulation Method inside our own erotic minds.

LISTEN NOW

I've spent 20 years turning my deepest, darkest fantasies into erotic film.

Little did I know that two decades directing feminist smut and doing BDSM sex work would lead me to discover a unique method for playing safely in the dark.

Dominating a client and looking after queer performers on set have something in common: tuning into two realities at once. One is the fantasy we're creating. The other is tracking their body language and nervous systems.

Most people don't know that we can use this same Erotic Pendulation Method inside our own erotic minds.

LISTEN NOW

Sometimes our dark fantasies feel like a runaway train.

They hijack your nervous system and drag you past your internal boundaries before you can stop them. Sure, you're aroused - but you still end up feeling icky.  

Your body is telling the truth.

Checking in with your gut as you venture into the dungeons of the mind is how we stay within our own consent.

With this skill, you can go into fantasy with intention, and use it as a place to do healing magic and erotic alchemy.

Imagine being in love with the parts of you that want fucked-up things.

Imagine waking up feeling at home in your body, welcoming pleasure and touch, and deeply in tune with your embodied needs. Intimacy feels effortless, and you can talk about your darkest desires from a place of such grounded self-love that your energy is irresistible.  

 

I WANT THIS

Sometimes our dark fantasies feel like a runaway train.

They hijack your nervous system and drag you past your internal boundaries before you can stop them. Sure, you're aroused - but you still end up feeling icky.  

Your body is telling the truth.

Checking in with your gut as you venture into the dungeons of the mind is how we stay within our own consent.

With this skill, you can go into fantasy with intention, and use it as a place to do healing magic and erotic alchemy.

Imagine being in love with the parts of you that want fucked-up things.

Imagine waking up feeling at home in your body, welcoming pleasure and touch, and deeply in tune with your embodied needs. Intimacy feels effortless, and you can talk about your darkest desires from a place of such grounded self-love that your energy is irresistible.   

I WANT THIS

Sign up for the free instant access guided Erotic Pendulation audio below:

 

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"Your voice is out of this world. I didn’t see the time going… was it really 30 minutes? I love the way we go in easy and simple - and the way we get out of it - same easy way."

~ BL