WHAT'S INSIDE
The reframe that changes everything
Why your fantasies aren't evidence of what you want to happen - and what they're actually telling you about your inner world.
Understand why complex arousal happens
What's really going on when your body responds to things your mind finds disturbing - and why your body isn't betraying you.
A new way to understand your shadow
The fact your fantasies feature the exact things you try to suppress isn't a flaw. It's a perfectly designed system - and once you see it, you can't unsee it.
The insight that transformed my own relationship with desire
The single perspective shift that took me from shame and confusion to curiosity and power - and can do the same for you.
I'M READYTestimonials
Siobhan Knox
Working with Blake was such a gift. From the very beginning, they brought a calm, grounding presence with a rare ability to put everyone at ease. They listen with real attention and empathy, while gently guiding us toward areas for growth.
RW
I really enjoyed the sessions and course content. So deep!! SO much to think about. You crafted the content so wonderfully and carefully I felt this "wow" feeling as so much opened up for me.
Dr Arianne Bloodwood
Blake has an exceptional therapeutic capacity. I feel so solidly yet effortlessly held by their lively and interested energy. Their attunement and intuition means that each session is a significant step forward for me.
Meet Blake Becoming
Blake is a somatic practitioner, queer porn director, and erotic mindfulness coach: a consent activist who spent twenty years filming taboo fantasies and accidentally became a trauma healer. They help feminists, survivors, and ethical kinksters turn their most troubling turn-ons from intrusive thoughts into gateways to power, pleasure, and aliveness.
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