The Last Rite of Pandora Blake

A gloriously queer conscious kink ceremony to shed our old skin - and birth what we're becoming.

3hr recording - Instant access

Twenty years ago I performed in my first spanking film - and Pandora Blake was born.

On Monday 20th July, she performed her final scene. Two people I love stripped "Pandora Blake" from me - clothes, name, and all. 

To celebrate my 20 year porniversary, I'm holding a ceremony where I'll shed the skin I've worn for two decades - and where you can shed yours too, so that we can birth what we're becoming.

This is a tantric BDSM ritual for fierce femmes & thems who want to feel it all.

You're invited to witness me in sacred ceremony as I'm stripped, bound, marked, ritually undone - and reborn as Blake Becoming.

Expect it to be kinky. We're talking impact, rope, hot wax, breath, and deep emotional catharsis. All live, unscripted, and held in intention and power by my co-conspirators Nimue Allen and Faerie Willow.

After my ritual rebirth, I'll guide you through your own conscious kink ceremony. This is an invitation for you to move through sensation and intensity, experience safe surrender, and trust yourself more deeply.

Feel free to engage at whatever level feels right to you. You may remain fully clothed, you may participate in some of the guided kink practices but not others, and you may simply attend as a witness. There's no wrong way to be reborn.

The evening includes:

• Storytelling and an introduction to conscious kink - what it is, why we love it, and why emotional release can look like laughing, crying, or cumming.
• Beginner-friendly demos of impact play and simple rope ties, with live Q&A.
• The ritual undoing of Pandora Blake
• A guided conscious kink ritual so that you can release what needs releasing
• Debrief, aftercare and shares 

This is for you if...

• You hear "conscious kink" and it makes something inside you perk up and pay attention
• You're curious about impact, rope, and BDSM - or you already know you love it
• You've been meaning to make time to romance yourself and be your own best lover
• You're going through some stuff, and you want community around you to help you move through it more powerfully
• You want to quiet down your busy mind and feel your body tingling with aliveness
• You're a powerhouse with fantasies of surrender, and you're so done putting off your own pleasure
•  You yearn to be in a circle of sacred sluts where you can let go and just play. 

This is not for you if you want instant gratification.

There will be nudity, intensity and erotic energy - but this is a co-created ceremony, not a porn show.

I've spent twenty years learning that our erotic edges are doorways to our deepest growth. This is a threshold I've been delaying crossing for years. I'm walking through it live, in front of you, you can feel what's possible on the other side.

Come witness my destruction and rebirth.

Come let go of what you've outgrown.

Access includes an instant download of the 3 hour recording in full HD, including the Last Rite BDSM ceremony and the interactive guided kink experience.